One thing about healing is you start seeing the toxicity around you and it’s like more you move along, the wider the gap becomes. Behaviors or certain language you used to do/tolerate may no longer be conducive to your new environment. What I mean is, that the people you meet when you are on a certain frequency reflect the energy you were at when you met them. As you start loving on yourself, some of those people may begin to resent you and your growth. You guys aren’t going to be on the same vibration anymore. They may start to project their insecurities onto you. They may still speak negatively about themselves or others, which can rub off on you. The people you surround yourself with have a major effect on you. So be careful about the ones who you keep too close. I’m not advising to do anything I’m just advising you to be aware. Awareness is key. People will project what bothers them about themselves on you and it’s important for you to recognize that and not internalize the things they are saying. You don’t have internalize anything anyone says or calls you. You are beautiful. You are capable. You are successful. You are doing a great job. People are always going to that anyways whether you are healing or nah. You are not required to respond. You are not required to meet them on their level. You are not required to “get revenge”. You do not need to mirror them and return that ugly negative energy. Understand that they are not where you are and they are literally trying to get a reaction from you. That is want they want. They want you feel at the level they are at. They want you knocked down a few so you won’t see the real potential in yourself.
I don’t think there’s ever a point of life where it stops. Spoiler Alert! So learn to handle it with grace early on. There will always be something for you to learn in life so don’t think of this journey in terms of having an ending. The only ending is death and until then, it’s more like a series of new beginnings. In each of these beginnings, you may have new characters, there may be a change in scenery/location, etc. Not everyone is meant to be lifelong. Not everyone’s life path is the same. We all want different things. That doesn’t mean there has to be any beef or what not. People just grow apart. That’s a part of life. As a military brat… I have never really formed long term attachments with people. I mean yeah I have friends I’ve known a long time but I’m not attached to them. Some people I know I may see again and I wish them all well. We can talk and reminisce as if no time as passed. It will always be like this even if it’s not in physical form. I feel that way about people who have passed away. For me, they will always exist for me in some place, in some time of my life and nothing will ever take that away. We have to appreciate everyone you meet along the way while they are in your life. Everyone had a purpose in you becoming whoever you are meant to be. Be grateful. Forgive. And focus on how you can start living your best life. Whatever that looks like… where ever that looks like… If you haven’t heard it today or ever, YOU GOT THIS! YOU CAN DO IT! YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB! Sometimes we have to be patient and disciplined for the things we want but never lose hope. I don’t know your situation but the energy of belief, can go a long way. Have faith.
With Love,
-C Money, the Muse
C Money London 