O to Star Trek

One of the scariest things these days has been to update your phone. No one is quite sure what the outcome of an update may be. On the one hand you may have your phone debugged and no longer have those minor issues to deal with. On the other hand, your phone might shut down or rearrange itself or start…

Only Girl in the World

You know I think Rihanna was right on one thing. Well a few things but most importantly, in the song “Only Girl (In The World)”, the message is that women want to feel like they are the only one in her man’s life. Easy, right? Wrong. So often women are dissatisfied with their relationships and most of the time it…

Books V Movies

Do you prefer books or movies? The debate is out there and no conclusion can be found. Let’s explore both sides of the argument and explore the two options while I will attempt to stay unbiased. Now the plus side to reading a story in a book is that you are giving the back stories and information about the character…

Perfect Girl, Wrong Time

One of the stories of my life in song is Big Sean’s “Don’t tell me you love me”. The line that hits that gut reaction with me is “What’s the perfect girl if it’s not the perfect time”. Let that marinate for a second. You would assume if you met the “perfect” girl for you that then your days of…

The Raging and the Reckless

Now if you are like most people, me included, you are suffering from a severe disorder. If you are like me then you too have either had or currently have road rage. The ranges of the rage vary and the different events on the road spark different reactions. Bottom line, someone needs to speak out about those driving WTF’s that…

FOOD for the SOUL

Do you like FOOD COMAS??? How about soul food? Okay so now let’s do the math, Soul Food + Food Comas = DELICIOUSNESS!!! So while I was in Dallas I went to this soul food restaurant called Sweet Georgia Brown.  Now before I tell you about the food I have to tell you my quest for soul food. Now my…

Self Love: Setting Boundaries

Another things I’ve learned on my self love journey is that loving self doesn’t mean you have to be selfish but also not selfless. When you are selfless, which can be admirable and even altruistic, it may actually undercut your self love. Self love isn’t being selfish but its setting those boundaries with other people in your life that allow…