I’m not require to tiptop around anybody on Earth. I’m not going to repeat myself.
I don’t understand when people started walking around here so self-indulged that they believe everyone must cater to their traumas. No one in the history of penis and vaginas has every catered to any of my trauma. That’s absurd. People don’t know. People don’t care. It’s one thing to tell someone that’s triggering you that you’re sensitive to an issue and if they disrespect you by doing it again intentionally, now that’s is not cool. That’s malicious and absolutely not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about the people are out here thinking that others should be hyper in-tuned with them like psychically and just should know they will be triggered, as if people should already know what’s going on in their heads/lives. That’s the weird shit I’m talking about. No one is required to observe your non-verbal communication, social media, gossip and use a crystal ball to figure out why something is bothering/triggering you. Use your voice. Speak up! Find a way to heal but don’t lash out at others you don’t even know. Like I see people trolling all time and it’s kinda comical. They get angry at someone else because their video comes on their timeline and the person says something triggering. Like that person doesn’t even know you. They literally are in their own little universe talking to their own people. Like let’s use some common sense and rational thinking before we go outside cancelling and being mad at people for living their own lives unbothered.
Also, if you can’t have someone else have a differing opinion. That’s a BIG OL red flag. You might want to have some self reflection on why you are bothered by someone else’s own self beliefs. For example: Kanye. So much to say….and everyone wants to cancel him. I don’t have a problem with him speaking out on what he believes. My faith isn’t shaken by outside forces. I don’t think anyone should be cancelled. I think we should have more discussions. Maybe should investigate the things he’s saying. We really out here spending billions of dollars worst ways on wars we never agreed upon anyways. What’s a couple million to investigate his allegations? The way of the future isn’t shutting down other people because they don’t agree with you. We need to take this back ol’ school to the Greek forum and have discussions. Debates. Provide the unbiased evidence. Find solutions. I’m not saying to investigate millions of random peoples babbling nor am I calling what Ye is doing babbling. I’m saying if we were all firmer in our own faiths, the words of another wouldn’t have as much of an effect on our own lives. We have to take accountability for allowing the words or actions of others to have that much of an effect on us. Essentially when you internalize the things others are saying you are giving them unspoken consent and accepting them to hold the power to change, effect, define, categorize, etc., you. No one has that power over you. Next time you are triggered, instead of lashing out, look within and ask yourself why what is happening is effecting your emotions so strongly. Find the right words to express why this is triggering for you. Now what do you intend to do about it now that you know it’s a trigger? If you intend on yelling at everybody for the rest of your life and living in a combative energy then cool. At least you know. If you want to get through it, figure out how to heal. If you need help, find the resources and people in the community around you that have the knowledge and tools it takes to get you out of where you are mentally where you are still being triggered. Actively heal. Actively seek healing and being healthy in mind, body and spirit. Healing takes work and no one is required to tip toe around you. We are all dealing with our own shit at the end of the day and no one has to care about anyone else. Love is a choice. We choose to love. We choose to care. We choose to heal. We all have free will. We can’t make people care about us. Maybe instead of lashing out, you choose to channel all that into a positive outlet for others who experience the same pain as you. Maybe instead of lashing out, you choose to educate others of your trauma in hopes of providing some sort of understanding. Maybe instead of lashing out, you just ignore it because you know it’s pointless to talk to someone who’s incapable of listening. Maybe instead of lashing out, you just focus on your own life. I’m just saying, you literally can not control other human beings and their free will so it’s a lot less energy to heal yourself than try to hold a billion other people accountable for not tiptoeing around a stranger they don’t know, had no idea existed, and don’t care about. I’m just saying… let’s stop projecting the accountability on others and focus on the things we can control which is ourselves.
SPEAK YOUR TRUTH
-C Money, the Muse
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