Not Everyone Will Have A Seat

One thing about healing is you start seeing the toxicity around you and it’s like more you move along, the wider the gap becomes. Behaviors or certain language you used to do/tolerate may no longer be conducive to your new environment. What I mean is, that the people you meet when you are on a certain frequency reflect the energy…

Loving Thy Neighbor

I DO NOT HAVE TO LIKE YOU TO LOVE YOU. Step 1: Love yourself. Also Step 1: Love thy neighbor. Loving others is the other most important part of self love because when you extend that same love to those around you, you’ll be pleasantly surprised to see that with the right people around you the vibes of community are…

The Best Version of Myself

At the end of the day, this is the goal. Being the best version of me that I can be. Give myself the best life that I can cultivate. That’s the real flex. Living your authentic best life and loving the life you created surrounded by the family you love. For everyone that looks completely different. Some people prefer the…

My Body is a Temple

The pandemic was a disruption in so many people’s lives. In a way it really tested humanity to see what kind of people we really were on the insides because for the first time in decades the whole family got to know each other on a really close intimate level. I was fortunate to be an essential worker. I don’t…

Affirmations are life!

The mind is the most advanced technology we have yet to figure out. One thing we do know is that the mind is programmable. Think Pavlov, Fraud, etc. The mind can be programmed. Consciously and unconsciously programmed. Without realizing it, all the habits you have and the reactions you have, are just programming. Everything around us has an effect on…

Give Mom’s A Break!

MAN. Have you ever spent every day all day with an infant/toddler. It’s so draining on so many levels. And I thought pregnancy was exhausting. Let’s start at pregnancy. If you’ve never been pregnant before let me tell you what it is like…. Now every pregnancy is different but for the most part mine was a roller coaster. I realized…

No Bread Like Homemade Bread!

Now I have never been a great baker. I can cook but baking from scratch? No way! I can follow a recipe or the back of a box but in terms of like just slapping some flour and stuff together? Forget about it. So like all things, I was scrolling on TikTok one day and saw this super cool bread…

Meta Awesome!

So I spent this morning in the meta verse on my Oculus Quest 2 VR (https://amzn.to/3EDenoT), which I will say was quite enjoyable. I went to an event in the Horizon World app by META aka FB featuring their CEO Mark Zuckerburg. In summary, it went over the new things to look forward in the next few years. One for…

Echo Chambers and the Sea Of Narcissist

I learned something profound in the pandemic. Unfortunately I’m not sure when the change occurred or has it always been like this? Like what came first the trauma, isolation or the division? Now if you aren’t aware of what an echo chamber is you should check out Joe Rogans podcast where he describes it at length. Long definition short it…

Not a Sheep, But I’m Half Black

So Growing up blasian has not always been the easiest. It’s like we really are the black sheeps because on the outside can we kind of blend in with only one side of our families. I mean there have been times going to a restaurant with my mother and people thinking we were just friends, lesbians or sisters. EVERY TIME…