Tag: #relationships

Perfect Girl, Wrong Time

One of the stories of my life in song is Big Sean’s “Don’t tell me you love me”. The line that hits that gut reaction with me is “What’s the perfect girl if it’s not the perfect time”. Let that marinate for a second. You would assume if you met the “perfect” girl for you that then your days of…

Are We Dating???

Remember when dating was easy? No? Well that’s because it hasn’t be easy for a long time now! Once we moved away from arranged marriages between different bands of small populations it became so complicated. It evolved into a monetary transaction between families. This was still way better than now. Then there was the chivalrous phase where men courted the…

Rushing To The Altar…I do?

Back when I was 25 I had just gotten out of a long emotionally abusive engagement and then out of a short rebound relationship that got violent. I was on the mends as they like to say. So I was feeling down and out. My frame of mind was that I would never ever get married and just be pushed…