Tag: #relationships

Reciprocity

If you begin the self journey and you just stop at the part where you share that love you cultivated then you missed the point. You missed half of the message. Some people are programmed to assess what they can receive or acquire but at no point do they think about finding out what they have to offer. What do…

Decoding The Forehead Kiss

Now I feel like this is one of those topics that has probably transcended time and space. Why I bet even the great Cleopatra sat around and wondered what that first forehead kiss from Caesar or Antony really and truly meant. Now historically speaking in the life of a girl, the forehead kiss originates from our fathers, grandparents or uncles. It…

Honestly About Honesty

You can’t handle the truth! Many of us grew up believing that honesty is the best policy. Not all of us apparently. Anyways, they instilled in us the fact that the only good way was the way without lies. Even the smallest of white lies was not all the time okay. The only times they were not as bad was…

Downgrade to Free?

Dear Men, Yes, you need to put in effort. And no, chivalry is not too much to ask for. Thanks! Every woman, everywhere   So just because it’s 2016, men feel like women shouldn’t have to demand the world before they put out. Last time I checked the only man who ever had a baby . . . WAS A…

Only Girl in the World

You know I think Rihanna was right on one thing. Well a few things but most importantly, in the song “Only Girl (In The World)”, the message is that women want to feel like they are the only one in her man’s life. Easy, right? Wrong. So often women are dissatisfied with their relationships and most of the time it…

Perfect Girl, Wrong Time

One of the stories of my life in song is Big Sean’s “Don’t tell me you love me”. The line that hits that gut reaction with me is “What’s the perfect girl if it’s not the perfect time”. Let that marinate for a second. You would assume if you met the “perfect” girl for you that then your days of…

Sum of Relationships

A couple of years ago I was engaged for about 3 years, living with the guy who I had assumed I would marry one day and though it was an epic fail, I did learn a lot about relationships. One of the things that I marvel at is the different ways that men and women think. It seems that both…

Fresh Start Before You Hit The Next Button

When are you ready to move on? The million dollar question that no one else can answer for you. We all go through so much in our lives that it’s hard to put the brakes on things like the pursuit of love in order to get your mind right. That way you can be better prepared and mentally able to…

Are You Currently With Mr/Mrs Wrong?

Why do we settle? First what is settling? Settling is when you get into a relationship with someone you know isn’t the best for you or even good enough for you. Do I have experience with this? ABSOLUTELY! Oh man, but why do we find ourselves in these relationships with men/women that seem to bring us down? For me I…

Becoming Le Rae: Jekyll and Hyde

  Now all of the names in this story have been changed for protection…. Not for them… For me… Yeah because I’m going to be lightweight talking shit… Or it may appear that way anyways… But whatever kick your feet up because this one is a doosey… I wish I could make up some of the things that I have encountered…