Tag: #life

Flowers, Family and Friends

One of the important things in most people’s life is family. For as long as I could remember, for me, I haven’t had a family that was very close. Like my mom has always been very supportive but she has always been deployed somewhere providing for me. So growing up my friends were/are my family. It’s true what they say;…

Sum of Relationships

A couple of years ago I was engaged for about 3 years, living with the guy who I had assumed I would marry one day and though it was an epic fail, I did learn a lot about relationships. One of the things that I marvel at is the different ways that men and women think. It seems that both…

Self-Love Journey

  Welcome to my self love journey. On this journey I will come to know myself, find my worth and ultimately become the person I could only dream I could be…. Not everyone is going to make it. Actually, a lot of people will not make it. I’m still not making it. But every day is a day to get…

Fresh Start Before You Hit The Next Button

When are you ready to move on? The million dollar question that no one else can answer for you. We all go through so much in our lives that it’s hard to put the brakes on things like the pursuit of love in order to get your mind right. That way you can be better prepared and mentally able to…

Keep Calm and Stay Rage Free

Anger management 101 Why?  Because even if you aren’t a rage machine, you might be suppressing it. Suppressions build up over time until KABOOM! It’s Mount Vesuvius all over again and everything in your path is destroyed. So as a follow up to my road rage blog, The Raging and Reckless, I am going to give you guys some tips for…

Becoming Le Rae: Dear Sir, It’s Okay To Cry

  There is a stigma in society that doesn’t allow men to be emotional or display any emotion because they assume that an emotional man is a weak man. So when is it an appropriate time for men to digest and release their feelings? Well if you ask me it’s not within the first couple of months of dating or…

Are You Currently With Mr/Mrs Wrong?

Why do we settle? First what is settling? Settling is when you get into a relationship with someone you know isn’t the best for you or even good enough for you. Do I have experience with this? ABSOLUTELY! Oh man, but why do we find ourselves in these relationships with men/women that seem to bring us down? For me I…

Becoming Le Rae: Jekyll and Hyde

  Now all of the names in this story have been changed for protection…. Not for them… For me… Yeah because I’m going to be lightweight talking shit… Or it may appear that way anyways… But whatever kick your feet up because this one is a doosey… I wish I could make up some of the things that I have encountered…

Becoming Le Rae

One of the key aspects of being a person who’s interested in anthropology is that you have to have a strong curiosity for the human species and culture. What makes people do what they do? What behaviors or emotions create norms of a society? Etc. Example: Some figured out that they could cultivate crops and plant them in order to…

Catfishin’ for Love

MTV has a show called Catfish. It’s a series based on the indie film Catfish that documents the creator Nev Schulman’s journey to meet the person who he met online and had a developed a deeper connection. Internet dating is become so common these days that this is becoming a more common means of meeting people. Well spoiler alert for…