Tag: #relationships

Catfishin’ for Love

MTV has a show called Catfish. It’s a series based on the indie film Catfish that documents the creator Nev Schulman’s journey to meet the person who he met online and had a developed a deeper connection. Internet dating is become so common these days that this is becoming a more common means of meeting people. Well spoiler alert for…

HOT MESSES: Picking Up Chicks

Wow. Some of you guys out there are a trip. There are some things you guys do when you are just meeting girls for the first time that are a hot mess. Pretty Boy—So I don’t know why but some of you guys think you are way too cute. Like a girl will be chilling and you hit them up.…

Logic or Love

The line between your heart and your head can often blur. The decision to listen to one or the other sometimes can be quite difficult. Logic or love. Who do you listen to? Some of you might say always follow your heart. The problem behind always following your heart is that sometimes love is blind and that blindness can lead…

Phones On Lock!

These days by the age of 25 you have probably gone through at least 1 phone of your significant other. I’m sure it’s probably more but at least 1, once. Why do we do these things? Well you probably had that suspicion he/she was out there doing something and you need the evidence or you are having some insecurities and…

Friend zone–Death of a Friendship

The “friend zone”. First let me define it. The “friend zone” is a made up term that describes the boundaries that one person usually sets on another that restricts the existence of a romantic relationship or any sexual activity. So basically the person only wants a platonic relationship, strictly friends. What is wrong with that? Seems like men are more…

Let the Dogs Roam Alone

There is no room in a relationship for dishonesty. The foundation of a relationship is centered on trust. Once trust is broken rebuilding it is a long hard arduous journey. The amount of energy it takes to cheat and cover your tracks could be spent advancing your life. Then, sitting around running after someone who isn’t trying to be with…

Only Girl in the World

  You know I think Rihanna was right on one thing. Well a few things but most importantly, in the song “Only Girl (In The World)”, the message is that women want to feel like they are the only one in her man’s life. Easy, right? Wrong. So often women are dissatisfied with their relationships and most of the time…

Tinderoni

So while I was working out in North Dakota I was introduced to Tinder by a couple of co-workers. Basically Tinder is a game where you swipe someone left or right depending on their photos and profile. Then if you guys match you can talk to each other and so on. So it’s like a speed dating app. Up until…

Blackeyes, Bruises, and Broken Hearts

In my quest to better myself as a person I realize how much the past and your child hood really have an effect on you. When I meet people, they often assume that I was a product of a normal 2 parent household and got everything I ever wanted growing up. Must be my positive attitude! By the way Santa,…

Sugar Mama or nah?

I am an independent woman. HOWEVER, that doesn’t mean I’m going to sit around and be someone sugar mama, which is a woman who takes monetary care of who she’s in a relationship with. No. Not even a little. To me, taking care of a man is like paying him to want to be around. When the money runs out,…